带上你和你的朋友，做他的好朋友，一起学习一起工作一起玩耍。有自己圈子的人，是不怕无关紧要的圈外人的流言的。做他的朋友，带动更多的人做他的朋友，就是最好的支持。比语言上的大道理有用多了。

走自己的路，让别人说去吧。

都怪我。

陪伴的人越多越好。

走你的路，让别人去说吧。

只要自己问心无愧。

谣言止于智者。

作为朋友，表示自己的信任。

亲，这难住我了。也许时间会让ta重新振作起来，看运气吧。

能够用语言重伤你的人那一定是不值得你重视的人，那么他说什么和你有什么关系，好好的爱自己，让自己越来越好

告诉他不要被社会评价所融合

这三个是目前的基本准则

谢邀。鼓励对方微笑面对。别人的过错不能拿来惩罚自己，自己良好幸福的状态是搏击制造流言蜚语者最好的语言。

受邀致谢，这个无法教给你，你自己必须慢慢学会与探索，先从学习心理学开始吧，尤其是荣格的分析心理学

别太在意别人，难道你只是为了别人而活吗？走好自己的路，让别人说起吧！自己做自己喜欢做的事，自己开心才是最重要的！

还是用一首歌来回答你的问题吧

Once upon a time, there was a steep mountain

从前 有一座陡峭的山where a dragon used to live那里曾经住著一条龙A long time ago, a man told a lie. He said很久以前 一个人撒了谎 他说

「I climbed that mountain to fight with the dragon

我曾经爬上过那座山去和那条龙斗争Then I almost killed him.后来我差点杀了它But I missed. And he was huge and black」但是我失手了 它又大又黑He just wanted to be famous by他只是想通过这个故事出名this story and that』s why he lied那也是他为什么撒这个谎

That unexpected story made the people amazed in the town

而这个出人预料的故事使镇上所有人都感到吃惊The king of the land heard that story and,这个地方的王听到了这个故事后he gave him a reward给了他奖励That lie became a rumor这个谎言变成了一个谣传and the rumor spread to the whole country传遍了整个国家

It ran, from the East to the West,

从东传到西and the North to the South从北传到南

Over many years, the rumor

多年以后was retold among the people这个谣传仍被很多人复述After a while后来A boy got inspiration from the story, then he said

一个男孩从这个故事中得到了鼓励 他说

「I want to be a hero like that」我想成为那样的英雄Then he went to that same mountain后来他就去了那座山It was a long journey,这是一个很漫长的旅程and it was very hot but he didn』t give up天气很热但他不曾放弃When the boy reached the top of the mountain

当这个男孩儿到达山顶

What he found was a huge white dragon,他发现的是一条巨大的白龙he was exhausted and injured它精疲力尽且身负重伤He threw away his sword于是男孩儿扔掉了剑which he had sharpened for this fight那把为斗争而磨尖的剑He nursed the white dragon as best he could

他尽他所有力量照顾白龙

And the white dragon recovered白龙日渐恢复day by day with the boys help这多亏了这个男孩儿的帮助After this the white dragon flew away into the sky之后这条白龙飞向了天空And the dragon』s scales came off,它的鳞片撒落下来which became the snow

成为了雪

It was the first snow in the country ever这是这个国家的第一场雪

That story became so famous all over the country

后来这个故事在整个国家都十分出名From the East to the West,从东到西From the North to the South从北到南After many years多年以后People talked about that boy as a legend人们都把那个男孩儿议论为一个传奇人物Words are magical for a moment言论在一段时间内很有魔力But living the experience, empowers your whole life但是经历永存 充实你的人生Do you want to hear more stories?你想听更多的故事or Do you want to chase the adventure?还是想追求亲身体验呢

歌曲链接：snow_百度百科

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