I often feel confused why people criticize the one who tells the truth and sympathize to the other one who does the wrong thing and be blamed, just because the truth will harm the relationship among people.

Last Tuesday, our house in Taipei has a damage on the wall due to its age that has surpassed more than thirty years old. My brother took photos, uploaded them to Line, and asked my father to come to Taipei to fix it. But I think we are adults; we are making money by ourselves, we should search the solution to this problem, and solve it by ourselves. However, my brother couldn't agree to that, he insisted that the house was chosen by my parents, so they must take responsibility for whatever problems it has.

Therefore, we had an explosive quarrel. I sneered at him and called him as daddy's boy because he would call my father every time he encountered problems. He was indignant to this and fought back on me with frothing girl who have many opinions but without paying mortgage.

I insisted that I was right, and the best way to solve the problem is to tell the truth. It is unfortunate that I ignore one thing that is speaking loudly which is always the weak one. My mom criticized me for having a bad temper and the words I said hurt other's heart deeply. In addition, my sister said I have high IQ without the same EQ, so I can't deal with the situation very well.

In the end, solving this problem about the house is still my father’s responsibility, but the only difference is that my brother is willing to help him fix the wall for the first time. Although I received much misunderstanding, but the result has brought some change.