You』ve seen all these angles of your own life, and then you compare it to other people』s lives when you don』t see what they』re going through. You just see the good parts of what they』re going through.

Am I right? And so, I say to you, when you start to compare yourself to other people, please change the channel in your mind to something else.

Because I think that when it comes to how we see ourselves, other people are really mean, but we are really mean to ourselves. And, so, it is easy to get confused.

And when you do get confused, and you start feeling like you』re not special, or you』 re not different, or you have nothing important to say, we feel like that sometimes. But, I want you to do right now, if there is one thing you remember from tonight, remember what I am about to say.

You need to look into the mirror in the morning and not tell yourself that you』re not special or you』re not awesome. I』m gonna tell you right now the things you actually are not, ok?

These are things you really are not: You are NOT the opinion of somebody who doesn』t know you.

You are NOT damaged goods just because you』ve made mistakes in your life. You are NOT going nowhere just because you haven』t gone where you want to go yet.

Those are the things you actually are not. Now I wanna tell you what you are.

You are your own definition of beautiful and worthwhile. That』s what you are.

And you are someone who was wiser because you made mistakes. NOT damaged, wiser.

You are somebody who could be, at this moment, right now, sitting there, there, there, there, there. You are going through whatever you』re going through in your life that』s stressing you out, confusing you and making you upset.

But you』ve gone out of bad. And you put on an awesome outfit, and you came to a concert and now we are all having the best time ever on a Wednesday night.

You know, it』s not about perfection. It』s about just getting on with things sometimes.

Sometimes you just get credit for getting up and going on with things. You don』t have to do it perfectly.

Um, and I think that we mistake our mistakes for damage. And we think other people will judge us for them.

But, I want you to know that the way I see mistakes. They don』t make you damaged.


When people fall out of love in you,theres nothing you can do to make them change their mind,they just dont love you any more.

----Miss Americana

當人們不愛你了的時候,你做什麼都無法使他們回心轉意,他們就只是不愛你了。


保持一顆平常心,

對生活充滿希望,

她的音樂給了我情緒發泄的出口

有一個不錯的英語成績

改變了我對流行音樂的認識

嘗試自己寫歌

加倍努力練琴……

偶像存在的意義就在於可以讓你變得更好,如果你成為某個人的粉絲後卻因為他感到事事不順心,祝你早日離開他。


  • 可以用來平衡壓力的是對事情本身的熱情
  • 不要緊張,試著去享受過程
  • 做事情聰明一點
  • 可以義無反顧地愛
  • 敏銳地反思,總結,提升
  • 誰都會在意別人對自己的看法,哪怕是Taylor Swift
  • 自信和光鮮的背後是無數次地練習和用心的安排
  • 快樂一點,自己快樂才能去應對挑戰和照顧好需要我們照顧的人


1)我也可以成為一個比她更優秀的人才

2)作為一個男人應該平等對待女性(女權)


教會了我

?要做一個自信的人

?年輕的時候要把自己想做的一些事情做好

?多參加一些活動,少年中也有更豐富的體驗

?學好英語

?音樂真的很美

?對於一些drama要無視,做好自己就好了


流行明星不要參與政治,也不要議政,不然只會暴露極低的政治智商與想靠政治立場撈錢的心。


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